Have you ever begged and pleaded for something when you were a kid, and when you finally got it, discovered it wasn’t quite what you expected?
Like the time you finally got a pair of Zubaz.
Or like in that Friends episode where Monica got new boots .
Of course, once you’ve fought so hard for that thing, there can be a lot of pressure to stick with it. Even if it’s not a good fit. And it’s tempting to think you just need a different color.…
by Noa Kageyama, Ph.D.